Post by Rightest Rachel on May 5, 2009 21:40:46 GMT -8
What's the best way for a child to live? Is it best for the mother to protect them, make their choices, have a say, act mother, get mad, and what most people can do best? Or, should people work with children teaching them about freedom, choices, independence, and, and teaching them about the real world but at the same time make they are safe (sensoring should be left up to just morals.)
Lets give you an example here. Say kid decides to cuss or go against what most people call polite.n Are you going to sensor them acting most mothers, which is telling the kids that it's bad to do, and maybe scold them? Or, in such a case not really care. Give the consequences for both sides (not cussing and acting normal/cussing acting a bit different) , and people's reactions. Then just sit back and watch them grow, knowing they are not you, and they need to make good decisions and learn the basics of liberty. You would think at that point. Well, if they suffer, they can learn from it. I've given them the theories and ideas and now it's there choice to take them or not.
I go for the liberty stance, that's why most kids or even people a few years younger than I like me.
Lets give you an example here. Say kid decides to cuss or go against what most people call polite.n Are you going to sensor them acting most mothers, which is telling the kids that it's bad to do, and maybe scold them? Or, in such a case not really care. Give the consequences for both sides (not cussing and acting normal/cussing acting a bit different) , and people's reactions. Then just sit back and watch them grow, knowing they are not you, and they need to make good decisions and learn the basics of liberty. You would think at that point. Well, if they suffer, they can learn from it. I've given them the theories and ideas and now it's there choice to take them or not.
I go for the liberty stance, that's why most kids or even people a few years younger than I like me.